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May 22
2010
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A blog in three parts:
Part one.
I. Wednesday afternoon.
We just had one of the most amazing experiences, one I did not expect yet I am not surprised that happened.
After a great day (Tuesday) in Latrun, visiting a farm and Neot kedumim we arrived at the Kibbutz. We saw a very nice Shavuot celebration and then went to dinner. As we were eating I felt that we are not truly feeling the atmosphere of the Chag – so when we were done with the food, I started singing. Slowly some students joined, and then others, there was still a group of students whom still “did not get it” – but I did not give up. We kept singing Zemirot louder and louder, the atmosphere became energized and eventually even the “stubborn” students – those unwilling to let go of their image for the sake of a spiritual experience gave in. We ended up dancing around the dinning room, jumping up and down, and singing until our throats hurt.
We then went to the Moadon – the clubhouse we had a room in. We first summarized the day as we always do. I was so happy that half the group said how singing after dinner was their highlight of the day, they used words as; family, friendships, spirituality, joys. It was all so positive that I decided to offer them a “Tikkun” – usually on Erev Shavuot Jews stay up all night studying Torah – to “fix” the mistake done by the fact that in the past we built the Golden calf as we waited for Torah. I offered them to have a “tikkun” a fix for the 8th grade. They had a safe space to thank a member of the group or to apologize to any one in the room.
I will let your children tell you what was said in the room, but I will summarize by saying that we – the staff- all cried at the end from the things that were said, the love and forgiveness that was displayed. We were so proud of them and so happy they could use this time in Israel to become the support group they will need as they continue to high school.
At midnight – when we were finally done- 20 students stayed to study with me. I was in shock (yet again) from the level of discussion – at Meyer when they study the text and talk about it in Hebrew the conversation is limited. Here we read in Hebrew and English and discussed in English. It took us 2 hours to go through the first 7 phrases ! we talked about conversations, about immigration – what not. It was incredible.
We had to stop at 2am because there was an issue I had to address but if it were not for that – they would have gone on and on.
On Wednesday morning we prayed and did study text – we had a long discussion about the nature of people – are we good or bad? Again the students had amazing insights and it was clear that they are capable of studying a text and analyzing it in a very high level – more important even, is the fact that we no longer have to deal with issues relating to behavior, we have created a group atmosphere that participation, volunteering, being serious and opening up and sharing feelings is the behavior that is rewarded. The few that had a hard time at the beginning have changed direction and are even among the leaders of this change.
Example: In the first two days it was hard to get a volunteer in the group – today before I finish asking 15-20 hands are in the air. If 3 months ago at the Meyer when I tried to have a circle in which they would share feelings all I received was giggling – now we have a circle every night to talk about the day and it goes on forever and ever.
II. Thursday afternoon: We just finished our first day with the Israeli Kids. The connection was immediate and strong. When we arrived to the beginning of the hike they stood out side our bus and each student was screaming the name of their American friend. With in moments the conversations were flowing. By the end of the day, as we left the site of the kayaks on the Jordan River, some were already having a hard time to say goodbye.
I’m sitting in the front seat of the bus, the laptop is on my lap, to my right and left – the golden-brown thorn fields of the Golan Heights. Farther away in the distance I can see Mount Hermon on one side, still covered with some snow, on the other side the mountains of the upper Galill.
It is so beautiful. I have not visited this area in such a long time, I almost forgot how magical this scenery is.
In the back of the bus the kids (I know I should say students but by now I feel like their father so I’ll say kids) are singing. THEY ARE GLOWING WITH HAPPINESS. They are singing in English, and then they switch to Hebrew, and back to English. They are seated in their seats but truly they are one inch above the ground.
In every tour to Israel there is a moment in which you just feel the magic, everything comes together, a harmony that is hard to describe in words. I think this is the moment.
A few moments ago, one of the girls came to Ayelet and said “I don’t want to go back home” and in that short sentence she managed to say it all. Today is the moment that the “connection” happened. For the past six days we had to move from a state of initial shock and overcoming tiredness to a state of ecstasy, of being energized beyond anything known before. We had to move from a mindset of students not very interested in learning to students BEGGING me to stay up late and continue to study with them the book of Ruth. We had to move from being individuals wanting to impress each other by doing inappropriate things to a group that knows why they are here, and does not waste time or energy on anything that is negative. We had to move from a group full with internal problems to a group that will do anything to support others and help them make good decisions.
And all of these changes I am describing –and others – actually happened. It is just amazing, I hope that you are able to tap into what is happening here even from far away
Part three:
Saturday night:
Its 3am in the morning and I want to post this before going to bed so you can read it before we return home.
Shabbat In Tzefat was magic. Singing Adon Olam on the roof of the Kabbalah center as the sun was setting – priceless. I hope the students will always know how to bring a part of this shabbat experience to the one they have at home.
So many amazing moments. Students talked about people that effected their lives – and it was so clear they learned so much about them self, about their friends, about what it means to be Jewish.
I can’t describe them all. But I will when I meet you in less then 48 hours.
Thank you again for allowing us to take your children on this amazing trip
We learn from our students all the time, as much as we had to give this trip – we are all returning richer from what they taught us.
Shavua Tov






